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Primary Love Language

Primary Love Language

FIND YOUR CHILDS PRIMARY LOVE LANGUAGE

Last week I attended a very interesting workshop in Princess Z’s school.The workshop was called ‘Find your child’s primary love language’ which was all about helping us (parents) to find out our child’s primary language for more love,confidence,safety,and success.

Two professional and experienced speakers
Dr.Monica MendesClinical Psychologist and Cindy can de MeeksPersonal and Professional Coach from The Valiant clinic were presented to speak in detail about this topic.Before I talk about it in more details let me tell you a bit more about The Valiant Clinic.

Spanning across 15,000 sqm and located at City Walk.Valiant Clinic is part of a vibrant residential and retail destination.It is managed and operated by the Houston methodist global health care services.It is an outpatient center for health checkup in the region with having a preventive and proactive approach to wellness and health management.They provide diagnostic services across a range of medical specialities supported by cutting edge technology and innovation that guarantee a superior patient experience.

Moving on, you all must have heard about Gary Chapman the author behind the famous book series The 5 love languages.Today I will be talking about those 5 primary love languages I learnt myself during the workshop

Like Mr.Chapman says. Attitude. Behavior. Development. Everything depends on the love relationship between you and your child. When children feel loved, they do their best.

Each child, expresses and receives love through one of the five different communication styles .Your love language may be totally different from that of your child. While you are doing all you can to show your child love, he may be hearing it as something completely opposite.

It is  highly important to uncover your child’s love language in order for you to fill up his/her love tank by feeling loved by you.

The Five Love Languages of Children, Dr.Rose Campbell and Gary Campbell discovered was that children understand love in five basic ways: physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts and acts of service. If you have several children, chances are they each understand love in a different way.

Often parents think that the ideal is to treat each child in the same way. However, a hug means more to some children than to others. So, for example if each child gets a hug, some actually receive more than others. Discovering the primary love language of each child is the key to effectively communicating love.Every child has a special way of receiving love.Take a look below at the 5 primary love languages: 👇🏻.

5 Primary love language
1.Receiving Gifts
2.Physical Touch
3.Acts Of Service
4.Quality Time
5. Words of Affirmation- This was my result

One of these five is the primary love language of your child. If you don’t speak that language, your child will not feel loved. Loving children effectively requires parents to express love in a language that the child understands.The ideal is that children learn to receive and give love in all five languages. This prepares them for good relationships as adults. Your example is the most effective method of teaching. Love your children effectively and they will learn to love others.

Follow the link below and take the 5 Love Languages official assessment to discover YOUR love language and begin improving your relationships.

Discover your love language here

*Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others…..

Also,do let me know in the comments below about your love language 👇🏻

Mother’s Day Gift Ideas Under 130

Mother’s Day Gift Ideas Under 130

MOTHERS DAY GIFT IDEAS UNDER UNDER 130 AED

Here are my top 5 perfect affordable gifts ideas under 130 to celebrate and make this Mother’s Day special

Flowers from Joi Gifts – Joi Gifts is an online gifting website in the Middle East.It offers a variety of flowers at affordable prices.The flowers here are freshly hand-picked and arranged in a diligently way in vases,hand bouquets,boxes or bags.With no delivery charge and on time delivery.This is one place where I totally recommend ordering flowers from.Plus,the website is easy to browse and the App can be downloaded on Android and iOS.

Mothers day
5 Red Roses in a Vase 99 AED

Flower arrangements starting from just 99 Dhs

For the full range of flowers visit their website: www.joigifts.com

Bath and Body Products– Who doesn’t love a relaxation bath 🛀 after a hectic day.The best way to relax and spend some time alone.All mama’s love it.There are many bath and body products available at affordable prices in the market but my favorite ones are Bath Bombs by Lush and Zoella products.(We all love them …don’t we!)Theses irresistible scented products can totally transform the bath into an indulgent experience in which one would love to lie back, relax and enjoy.

Mother’s Day Special ‘For Mum’ Gift Set 130 AED

Visit Lush Stores to check out their special range for Mother’s Day.

Zoella Soak Opera Shower Cream 49 AED

Check out the full range of Zoella products at Virgin Megastore or order them online via: www.virginmegastore.ae

Travel Mugs-If your planning to make Mother’s Day a bit of fun ,and if your mama is a coffee/tea ☕️lover then these fancy travel mugs from Spoontiques will totally be the perfect gift for her.

Spoontiques Wonder Women Travel Mug 79 AED
Spoontiques I’m Too Sexy GrandMother Travel Mug 59 AED

Check out the full range at www.virginmegastore.ae

Cosmetics – Looking good is in everyone’s agenda these day.Below are a few cosmetics from Sephora that might be perfect and useful for the mama’s this Mother’s Day.

Urban Decay AfterGlow 8-Hour Powder Blush (available in 8 different shades) 129 AED
Smash Box Be Lengendary Matte Lipstick (available in bold reds,pinks,sultry berries and neutrals) 125 AED

Check out www.sephora.com for more information

Or if she has enough cosmetics but don’t have space to keep them then these bags by Zoella can be the perfect gift to store them

Zoella Favourite Things Coral Bag 79 AED.Check out the full collection at www.virginmegastore.ae

Sweet Treats– If your looking out for something different and sweet this Mother’s Day then eclair.ae is surely the place to check out.Located in Jumeirah Lake Towers (JLT) and Citywalk 2.It is dedicated to the world of eclairs.It offers massive variety of flavors with the option of regular or mini eclairs.The pastries are light and baked to perfection, filled with an ideally balanced delicious filling. It’s temptation, creates bursts of flavor in every mouthful.😋

Dig in the box of 6 mini- eclairs for just 60 Dhs or try out their special gift box of 6 mini-eclairs for 80 Dhs

The World of Delicious Eclair

Visit the website www.eclair.ae for more information on their take-away menu and flavors.

There are many other things that can make Mother’s Day extra special and are absolutely FREE 😊

Giving out a lot of Hugs & Kisses,and some special messages (I Love You,Thank You,I Am Sorry,……..).

Doing all of the Housework-(so mama can relax and enjoy her day watching television).

The Laundry– managing to collect and washing all of the laundry for the day.

Cooking something special-(maybe making moms favorite dish for dinner).

Mother’s Day is all about remembering and appreciating the time,the love,the blessings that our moms gave us when we were young and returning and making them feel extra special on this day.

Happy Mothers Day to all the Super Mama’s in advance!

The Cats

The Cats

THE CATS IN PRINCESS Z’S LIFE  🐱

Cats have always been a part of Princess Z’s life.Being fond of cats since her toddlerhood.She loves everything related to them.Whether its cat cushions,plush toys,hair clips etc.We never had one nor planned of having any as mom aka Princess Z’s grandma (Nani) was afraid of them and didn’t want the ‘scratching the furniture’ thing🙈in the house.During our shifting process Princess Z tried her best to convince Nani to get her a kitten on her birthday (as she knew our house is getting bigger and we have space for them)but it didn’t work out 😞.The day we shifted to our new home just before her birthday Princess Z was lucky enough to make some new cats friends in the neighborhood.Nani was happy as well as we didn’t needed to get one now)😉.

Here’s what she named them:
Softy-Loves moaning outside our door,a solid eater,the first one to get attached and is the oldest and the closest of them all.’Her best friend’,that’s what Princess Z likes to call her 😊).

Whitey- A little reserved,plays a little,likes to roam around our house,loves food

Silly Cat-A kitten actually who loves to play in our garden with her mouse toy and bubbles

Babu-Never comes in but loves to be fed.

Softy 2- Pays us a visit,once in a blue moon

and many more but they have not been named yet)
😂😂

It was a scary thought at first.(tendency to bite or claw.) but as time passed by they created a special bond.It’s was not just Princess Z that started to have the love and affection in her eyes, but the cats seem to have the same adoration.In no time the cats and kitten became attached to Princess Z.Taking time out to feed,play,pet and caress them has became a part of her daily life.Nothing makes her more happy then seeing those cats waiting for her outside at the doorstep when she comes back from school.Not only this weekends,specially Friday is a ‘Cat’ day for us,spending hours playing with them in our garden.

Princess Z Watching Softy Eat
Playing With Bubbles With Ms.Silly Cat 🐱

Playing with cats is all about treating them well.During the night time when Princess Z is lying by my side I tend to teach her all about the do’s and don’ts of Cats.When talking I try to make her understand the teaching on how to play with them,by staying calm and quiet while playing: no yelling, screaming, running, or jumping.Telling her the facts about them.Its important to help her understand that the cat is not a toy and she’s a living companion who has just as many feelings as us.